Let me add . . .

You know we all do our best in this life.....and we learn. As wonderful as Abete is to my children it does not mean we do not have our struggles. Marriage is hard. Even painful at points. Much of what happens is disappointing. That said, when it is good it is like a window opens and lets the breeze and rays of Heaven into out hearts. Those are the moments I live for. Those are the moments that make the pain tolerable. Those are the moments that sustain us . They allow us to try harder, forgive more and take a deep breathe and say I am sorry. Words I apparently need to move to the top of my "high frequency use" list.